TYPE
ONE: IDEALISTS
Ones are
idealists who believe that everyone has a moral obligation to live up
to their very best potential, because if everyone did that, the world
would be a better place. This translates to the belief that:
- a job worth doing is worth doing well
- quality is more important that quantity
- honesty and integrity should not be compromised
These beliefs reflect an underlying set of values
that center around accuracy, integrity, high standards and fairness to
all. These values are reflected in how Ones think, feel and act
throughout their personal and professional lives. At high functioning
levels, they have a very strong sense of personal integrity, are
rational, conscientious, and become extraordinarily wise and
discerning. They behave responsibly and can be counted on to follow
through on whatever commitments they make. Self-disciplined,
dependable, and highly principled are typical ways in which Ones are
described.
Sometimes, however, Ones self-imposed ideals and
high standards can cause them - and those who work or live with them -
considerable stress. When Ones feel that their standards are not being
met, they can become quite critical of the "offenders",
especially if those offenders are themselves. They have a strong inner
critic that tells them when someone has not done his or her best, and
feel compelled to point out and/or fix the flaws. They may also feel
obligated to finish or redo other peoples' work to make it acceptable
or to improve it. This can be resented by others who may see them as
picayune, rigid or self-righteous. The Ones' sense of moral obligation
also makes them feel guilty if their work isn't done - and done well -
before playtime is allowed. As such, they tend to be orderly,
organized people who take their obligations very seriously.
Ones are "gut" people who have an
immediate, strong sense of right and wrong. As such, they tend to have
clear, strong opinions about what should or shouldn't be done, about
what is right, or about what could be better. These strong opinions
and apparent moral certitude can sound preachy and dogmatic to others,
who may also find Ones to be judgmental and intolerant. Under stress,
Ones may tend to revert to black and white thinking as a means of
control in what they see as a chaotic or sloppy world.
Ones grow when they shift their focus from judgment
to understanding of others. This is not difficult for them, as Ones
are often generous people, willing to help others without being asked.
They also grow when they allow themselves to relax and not take
themselves, their work, and the world so seriously.
At their best, Ones are understanding and accepting
of human flaws and frailties while striving to be fair, ethical and
objective in all matters. They have a strong sense of social justice
and will put themselves at risk to defend the principles they believe
in. They can be wise, discerning and inspiring leaders, living and
teaching the principles for which they stand.